People often say that they can live their life happily if it is filled with love and that they can live without money. But when we go deeper into this statement it proves to be false. It is true that money cannot buy love and happiness but money certainly can buy things through which an individual can express his or her love and also buy essential stuff which would make them happy. There is a famous saying “It is better to cry in a BMW rather than on a cycle”. This statement is indeed true. It is better to be comfortably unhappy than being uncomfortably unhappy.
Money equals freedom. I love to buy beautiful things and happy than I own them. However, do not cultivate money. It is dangerous as you become empty and cynical. You do not notice life. You become far away from the reality, from the existence of life.
I have never wanted to become extremely rich. I want only that amount of money enough to have comfortable life. To travel, to shop, to buy good food, to pay for my children's education, to go to spas, restaurants. Plus I just adore good shoes and expensive cosmetics. More or less I need around 20000 CHF per month. That is what we call now the good salary of the "Middle class society". I am confident that I am capable to earn that amount of money. However this is not the ending goal of my existence. I love to enjoy life even if I travel with economy class. To eat in a very cheap but extremely tasty restaurants in Portugal, to travel easy jet but visit many countries and study their traditions, to be practical and do smith by myself for example to sew the clothes and maybe in the future to have my design line. Having numerous hobbies, read interesting books, to cook - all that you could do without having the fortune. But you could enjoy the process only when you love, when you can share all the joy of cooking, going to cinema, traveling with smn whom you love and kiss every time!!!!!
There is the stereotype that all the riches are lonely people. Human beings stay in cozy homes, eat whatever they want, do whatever they feel like, travel the world, just with the power of money. But many of them are unhappy. Why??? Maybe because life is not too easy thing...
We live in a practical world where falling in love is easy but maintaining that love with empty pockets is impossible. Life without sufficient amount of money is extremely depressing and frustrating. If an individual cannot fulfill his or her daily needs, it would be impossible to think about anything other than money, leave alone love.
In this 21st Century World, money is so important that today in most of the households, almost every adult member earn their own living. This is essential to keep at par with the society and it’s raising standards today because people who have more money are considered to be more important by everyone. This is a bitter truth and also hard to digest but turn your eyes a bit and you will understand the significance of this truth. Moreover, can you contribute for the development of the society and even your own family if you do not possess sufficient money, you cannot.
My conclusion: It is therefore essential to use your mind when you try to understand the importance of money in life. But do in that life what you really like. Life is too short. Do not concentrate only on money-making as without loving your work you would not gain money. That's the fact.
And of course you must love... Start with yourself, and you understand how cool that life. Share these emotions with your partner and you will live forever...
V.C.
