This morning talked about how to achieve a happy life in my webinar. But, have you ever thought about what happiness means to you? How would you value happiness?
For me, I believe happiness is greatly related to wealth, health, and love. I put wealth at first among three criteria. I like earning money and seeing the amount in my bank accumulates. But I have no intention to spend it, it is just a proof of my capability. The more I earn, the more competent I am appealing. However, I’m not really happy if I got money remained without health and love. To be honest, I’m now earning my living at the expenses of my health, I just sleep like 4-5hours every day.
Back to the origins, life is all about trade off. I stay at the UK work on my business, yes, I’m lonely in every single desperate night. I’m tired, I miss home, I miss my friends and family. But what can I do, give up my half-way business and fly back to Hong Kong and rush into my mum’s embrace and behave like a baby? Yes, I can definitely do it, no one will blame me, but me, myself would definitely look down on and belittle myself if I really do so. Life is all about achievement. If you give up during half of the journey, I don’t think you should ever set off at the beginning. Alright, I just bite the bullet and hang in there. I cry a lot now, but I believe I will surely be happy and get fruitful harvest later.
For the love part, I am so desperate someone could come into my life and love me unconditionally (other than my mum). But the reality is always cruel. People just come and go, left me a torn and broken heart. And now I’m caught in a rock and a crazy place. My love life is such a mess… So just forget about it. At least I get a handful of friends and besties, they are always willing to offer me love.
If you ask me am I happy at the moment, I will answer you probably not. Life must go on, no reason for me moaning about it. And I sincerely believe that once I surmount all the obstacles and get my goal accomplished, happiness will visit me again.
How about you? What you think happiness is? Are you satisfied with your life at the moment?
For me, I believe happiness is greatly related to wealth, health, and love. I put wealth at first among three criteria. I like earning money and seeing the amount in my bank accumulates. But I have no intention to spend it, it is just a proof of my capability. The more I earn, the more competent I am appealing. However, I’m not really happy if I got money remained without health and love. To be honest, I’m now earning my living at the expenses of my health, I just sleep like 4-5hours every day.
Back to the origins, life is all about trade off. I stay at the UK work on my business, yes, I’m lonely in every single desperate night. I’m tired, I miss home, I miss my friends and family. But what can I do, give up my half-way business and fly back to Hong Kong and rush into my mum’s embrace and behave like a baby? Yes, I can definitely do it, no one will blame me, but me, myself would definitely look down on and belittle myself if I really do so. Life is all about achievement. If you give up during half of the journey, I don’t think you should ever set off at the beginning. Alright, I just bite the bullet and hang in there. I cry a lot now, but I believe I will surely be happy and get fruitful harvest later.
For the love part, I am so desperate someone could come into my life and love me unconditionally (other than my mum). But the reality is always cruel. People just come and go, left me a torn and broken heart. And now I’m caught in a rock and a crazy place. My love life is such a mess… So just forget about it. At least I get a handful of friends and besties, they are always willing to offer me love.
If you ask me am I happy at the moment, I will answer you probably not. Life must go on, no reason for me moaning about it. And I sincerely believe that once I surmount all the obstacles and get my goal accomplished, happiness will visit me again.
How about you? What you think happiness is? Are you satisfied with your life at the moment?
