I have never experienced cheating in my relationship, however, it has always been near me and I had situations, when I had to deal with it, because of my friends who looked for advice. For myself I have decided that I would not accept cheating, but I would forgive person not continuing the relationship.
I strongly believe that if your loved one is cheating, then 90% it’s your fault too. But nothing can justify cheating... nothing. I have asked men why do they cheat their loved ones and the most common answer was:
When we just got married my wife was gorgeous, she was wearing beautiful dresses,
she was skinny, but now... walks with greasy hair, in sweat pants and watches soap operas.
or something like she was skinny, but now... walks with greasy hair, in sweat pants and watches soap operas.
‘’I love my spouse, shes amazing, but something isn’t like before, I want to experience being in love and vivid feelings
like before...
There are 10% of men who are just cheaters and there is nothing that can change this type of character. This type of men justify themselves saying like before...
All women are so beautiful. I can’t resist.
I also think that some women or men are ridiculous about what is and what isn’t cheating.
For example, my boyfriend liked pictures of other women on instagram. I admit - that wasn’t very pleasant feeling...but I think it’s normal. I ignore such things, because I have high self-esteem. High self esteem is the key, because because of that a lot of relationships doesn't work.
I don’t judge if men looks at other women, because it’s impossible not to!
I believe that people can change, but mostly only with age. If person made some mistakes when he or she was young - there is a possibility that at age of 30-40 they won’t make such a bad decisions.
We only live once and I think that EVERYONE ON THIS PLANET DESERVES RESPECT AND TRUTH, LOVE AND CARE, that is why nobody should ever forget cheating in the name of family. I understand that it might seem the right thing to do, and sometimes I almost agree with it. The only right way, to me, is friendly and understanding divorce... Some people might find this way very destructive and that is okay, maybe everyone has their own vision of happy family, but I believe, that, if somebody is cheating then - it isn’t LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. I BELIEVE IN LOVE TILL DEATH. I BELIEVE IN FAIRY TALES and
I wish you all wonderful and joyful life with person you love till death separates you.
WISH YOU ALL TRUE LOVE